Communicative functions: Interacting with others

Using formulaic expressions

Starting a conversation (icebreakers)

When we interact with others we usually have conversations which we use to get to know other people better. We generally begin a conversation with a greeting and if necessary an introduction. Then someone takes the first turn to get the conversation started. The first turn in a conversation is sometimes called an 'icebreaker'. It is the first step towards finding out more about the other person.

The most common ice breaker of all is to ask a question about something around you. Here is an example from the beginning of a conversation between some children:

		What's that?	icebreaker question The first speaker uses a very informal icebreaker to ask about something the other speaker is drinking.
		Mango juice	answer The second speaker takes a turn to answer the question. The ice is broken! The conversation has now started.

Here are some more icebreakers:

	asking for a small favour Do you mind if I sit here? Can I put my things there? Can you tell me the time please?
	talking about something around you, eg the weather, the view, an object, goods in a shop Great day, isn't it? Look at that! Isn't it wonderful! This food is delicious.